I am married so just looking for the thrill and excitement of some NSA passion. My wife simply does not have the same sex drive or need for sex that I have.I am not looking for love or a relationship. I don't need all the small talk and chit chat...I am not into any extreme wierdo stuff I don't see the point in pain!!...just fantastic straight sex.I love giving oral and playing with toys for hours...until you can't take any more (pleasure that is) and only then you will feel it deep inside you! The ideal lady for me would be open for anything and slightly sub.