ah, what to say. i'm in school right now for women's studies and third world studies, and i plan on saving the world, starting this summer. i'm going to Ghana to do HIV/AIDS education with teens in the cities, and it's going to be pretty awesome. I love books and reading, and really i'm a nerd, but really the only indication of it is the "big words" that i apparently use. let's be honest here, i'm not into misogynist crap, i'm a feminist (which doesn't mean that i hate men, by the way), and i'm not looking for a relationship. i'm looking strictly for sex, and if anything else blossoms, well then that's interesting and maybe something will come of it. i'm used to having at least a friend with benefits around, and that no longer exists, so i'm looking for a replacement. if you want a one-night stand, you're looking in the wrong place..i want a friend, someone i trust, who can be there for me when i need him, just like any other friend would be, except in a mostly sexual capacity. i'm a strong woman and sometimes i'm fierce..well, actually, most of the time. i'll say things to your face and defend what i believe in, but i promise i can be pleasant. and yes, i like being on top.