Ok as the heading says i have been in the BDSM scene for over 20years and i have enjoyed every minute of it.I tend to be more discreet than most with what i do, well unto recently when i thought what the heck.However i am very discreet still when it comes to women wishing to be trained by myself or used by me.That last sentence will not go down well with some but hey why lie? it gets you no where.