I'm a red haired submissive (hence the name) who is newish to BDSM, my boyfriend brought me into this world however I am have been craving the touch of a women for some time. If you are dominant and female, great!!, if your not a Domme female, that's fine too. Yes he is aware and he his more than welcoming to the idea of me with another women (and is more than willing to watch, but only if you are interested).