As 34 is approaching faster than I would like I need to focus on me. Surround myself with quality friends. That being said when you look for a potential mate you are attracted by the outer shell, that can keep your attention. You have to delve below the surface. The same can be said for looking for quality friends. People say that this is a hookup site...that is true. However like anything, it is what you make it. Going out every night was fun when you were younger. As you grow older you have to go to different avenues to make friends. It's unlikely you'll be going to the grocery store to meet your best friend. I love various activities. If my outer shell has caught your eye then take the time to delve below the surface to get to know me...it could be the best thing you did. If I send you a message and you're not interested kindly say so and I won't waste my time or your time again. I also give out compliments have the courtesy to say thank you.