I have been trying to join the site but my browser and security seeting are preventing it and no one can tell me why. Paycom will only let me join online and not over the phone so I am being denied. I will try and find a way but to everyone who has sent a message this is why I haven't answeredA fifty plus man who loves women but refuses to turn my life over to one. I still want a woman in my life but don't have to have one. I don't compromise on this any more and I won't let myself be manipulated or emasculated for the sake of sex. It is important to me but not enough to sacrifice the way I feel about relationships for.I will treat her well as long as she deserves it but the minute she tries to pull a woman's trick I will be gone