New to this, but I'm looking for a casual, NSA, non-relationship. I love sex and the one I'm with, but the one I'm with doesn't want sex right now. She actually is asking me to go elsewhere, so instead of screwing up friendships I have with people I know, I'd like to keep it somewhat anonymous. BLAH BLAH BLAH... I'm a busy person with lots of things going on in my life too, so lunch/dinner and hookups are about all I can offer. I don't even know if women use these sites, but if you do and you want to discuss more, let me know!