I'm a real fun guy but that's really up to you!. the one looking at me. I am looking for a women to spend my time with and if kids are involved with them also. A long term relationship is what I would like. I am old enough to support myself and not go out and hit it with the boys anymore. In return she would get a loving man to share time in travel,play and just lounge around on the couch on those icky days and cuddle and watch a movie or just talk about our day. I am looking for a spontaneous ,spunky witty and charming women who is also not afraid to say her mind,cause even a guy needs to be put in his place every once in awhile. In return she will get my love ,honesty and most of all my comfort in time of need. I do have big shoulders to cry and sleep on. I have put to paper my feelings. the last thing Ill say is that life is what you make of it its not where you are or what you are doing but who you are enjoying it with thats what love is.