i am mid 30's slim fair hair and up 4 most things also i've had the SNIP lol xxx my wife has never been great in bed but she is a great person and i do love her very much...but i have a very high sex drive and would like to try most thing even once but she doesn't & i wont push her to try coz what is the point if ONLY ONE of you are enjoying yourself that's why i make a point of only having sex if both party's are having REALLY GOOD or WILD ORGASMIC FUN hope to hear from you real soon .....