My girlfriends drag me out to these nightclub events, all the time, and it's really not my scene, but I go anyway, because it's kind of rare that we all get time to hang out together, so when we do, I'm kinda confined to doing whatever is in the group's consensus. But to be perfectly honest, my choice would more often than not be just chilling at home, listening to music or watching movies. I'd like to meet someone who's in a similar situation, maybe we can get together and do what we REALLY want to do, together. You know, when we're not obliged to indulge our friends.