Hello, I'm Richard from NH. I used to think of myself as a hopeless romantic, but now figure that hopeless sounds negative, so now I believe I'm a hopeful romantic Dom that thinks a person that get pleasure from giving pleasure can reach heights that no others can. Imagine, if you will, getting pleasure from giving it and getting pleasure from your lover at the same time.. the highs that we could reach together... Now, please don't think I'm a pushover or apologetic for being Me, I'm far from that. I'm as firm and strict as I need to be, but always loving... I've been into D/s stuff since I was 17yo... I'm into spankings, specially OTK, even better with a vibro egg being held where it will do the most good..., bondage, nipple play, leather, and so much more, I'm not a believer in heavy or real pain cause after all it is pleasure that we all seek, Right? I mean a spanked red/blushed butt is really cute, a welted black & blue one isn't...