I've learned that people should say what they mean and mean what they say, no game playing and if someone doesn't meet your needs, maybe you should look at your expectations, communicate your feelings and see if there is resolution. I'm a mature adult man who is willing to work through any life situation so long as I know what the situation is. Hiding truths from me will dissolve any potential relationship before it gets started. "Those who have nothing to hide hide nothing" let's practice that. Have a happy and blessed day.