well, you know what.Being a few years removed from a decade of marriage that ended in divorce where the sex was great but the personality compatibility wasn't as great, I am very experienced and comfortable with what it takes to please any partner-and I like to make sure the woman's libido cravings are of the highest priority-I get off on that. And after having recently returned from living in the sensual paradise that is Rio de Janeiro, I can now say I've tried most everything and am up for anything. Seriously. Including ice (OK-I keep in shape by playing hockey). I tend to find things pretty vanilla here in the States, particularly where I used to live in the NW, but maybe things are different here in New Mexico, eh?I'm know I am not like the otherguys. My mind is constantly racing with thoughts of new philosophical and sexual realms to explore. If you are familiar with comedian George Carlins take on the religion/social paradox, you have a pretty good idea of where I stand philosophically. And I greatly prefer individualism over the collective.So I seek diversity in myriad ways-music, art, athletics, cuisine, travel, sex, other cultures, philosophy, etc. I crave more and more learning (I used to be a teacher) and while I am always hungry for new things sexually and whatnot, I am still discovering some not-so-new wonders (for example, the Tropicalia movement from Brasil in the late 60s-sticky and sensuous musica)Overall, I'm a professional, athletic, independent, humorous and honest free-thinker who's into eclectic music, ethnic dining, travel, indie cinema & NOT the status quo.