I know exactly what I want in my life. The army has taught me that I need to figure out what I want before I can achieve it. Much like weightlifting. You have to know what you want before you even workout. If you go into the gym without knowing what you want than you will see very little results. Trust me on that. I recently started doing ameture bodybuilding shows. Anyways, I am very outgoing once you really get to know me. I love the outdoors and driving around. I would drive all day if gas wasnt expensive. That and I have to go to work. I dont have a college degree yet but I am trying to come up with a plan to get it done while i am in the army. I am not self centered at all. I have worked very hard to get in this kind of shape and it has taken me 3 years.