I'm very laid back kinda guy. Not really into the gays club scene or drama that comes along with it. I prefer guys who are not effiminate. If I wanted to date a woman, I would. I want a man. That doesnt mean a furry bear. It just means I'm looking for a guy who enjoys sex with men, but thats about as gay as they are. If this doesnt make sense to you, you're not the one I'm looking for.I like shorter in shape guys. 5'5-6'0 is ideal. White guys only. Just my preference.