I am comfortable being in groups of 2 to 2000 people, especially with a lovely companion at my side -- when that is the case, all the other people disappear from my sight. We can be enjoying a candlelight dinner, the symphony, a concert by a 70's-80's rock group, a film in a theater or on dvd at a place of great comfort. I live in the moment!I am a semi-retired architect, went through college twice!5'-10" and 180#. 58, with graying, thinning hair. My hairy chest will keep you warm and snuggly.I addition to the interests listed above, you may find me in wine country, at the beach, taking photographs, talking with tourists, especially from other countries (I have been to 20+ countries and all but one state!). I like meeting people!Sexually I am a warm, intense, non-abusive partner. I enjoy sharing control of the relationship, building trust in each other, and then exploring our horizons!