ONLY local to NYC, please! The webcam thing isn't for me. I prefer my interactions to be in person. I am athletic and fit! I expect the same in sexual partners.I am extremely sexual & lean toward kinky adventurous sex. That being said, I am selective about who I have sex with and expect that those I have sex with would also be discerning. I may be a little older but I am in no way desperate.I love intelligence and if you can carry on a sexy, banter of flirting with double entendres we will get along fabulously! Mental foreplay is very, very hot and is a big turn-on for me. It puts me in the mood for many other things. I love a sexy, intelligent, fit man with a dirty mind!The right couple is always an option for me as well. I am straight but bicurious and have visited that before and enjoyed it!