I like to make big thing of sex and slip in a good porn in the background, get some toys, etc. together, and talk, tease, play, and explore for a few hours at a time and slowly, bit by bit tease less an less, stopping for smoke breaks & talking [dirty or not...], (also somewhere in here I'd BETTER get the chance to lick/suck/nibble/finger/worship pussy for @ LEAST 30 minutes, even if its 4or5 times @ 8or10 min./each) until one time I get inside and we're too hot to stop. So we take our time, experiencing and exploring. Then, after we build up for 30 or so minutes, we get hotter and hotter and finally just pounding madly and screaming nasty things in a blind, orgasmic fury, we reach a climax that will send us both out of our light heads. LOVE it...ESPECIALLY when the *weather* is just right!