life is not a journey to the grave with intentions of arriving safely in a well-preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out and loudly proclaiming * what a ride......well just to start, I've been out of the picture for close to 4 years taking care of stuff, haven't dated since, I am gentle, considerate, caring,I treat a woman like a woman.I'm kind of layed back enjoy the beach, pool, dinners, TV, I have a drag race car but haven't used it much. I do inteend to take it out and beat on it...lol. I like petite or at least slim woman, I am not slim. In the 3 years or so since back surgery and retirement my belly seems to have expanded, I'm working on it though. I am funny in a witty sometimes sarcastic, sexualy 1 liners. i make you laugh and I'll treat you like you should want to be treated...ask for more if you want. i suggest you do ask because we all forget to say things that may be important.I just spent 5 months moving my handicapped mom from Ny to here, because i needed to take care of her, she don't live with me but close. i take responsibilty serious. No mom of mine is getting put away.. Don't judge a book by it's cover. I attached a picture of me a few years ago standing next to my car in my old garage. it shows me slim, i will get back there