Intelligent,educated to the nth degree, but lacking common sense. Maybe that's why I've been hurt so much in my life. Now I just want enjoyment. I am sensitive and can be a best friend or...hurt again. I like to be creative in everything that I do. I like to think outside the box. Reading is a favorite pasttime, right on the bearskin just after lighting the fire. Sex would be my favorite pasttime, but right now there is no one with whom I can share that pleasure.I know that men in general put their best foot foward until they get sex, then they show their true colors ; more often than not, they go sour or to sleep. I don't change personality after sex and I'm more awake than ever! I find that things are much more relaxed if sex not foremost on my mind. I hate head games and if I'm horny, it's hard not to think sex first. I have to be honest about that; I know most guys aren't.I can be a very good friend, if you can stand to hear and tell the truth.So I'm honest. Let's cut to the chase, no strings attached, but if there is more to be desired by both (if you want strings)if there is chemistry, I am open to exploration. In fact, I would appreciate it.But hot and heavy isn't a bad substitute while looking for a great sex partner and my best friend.In the meantime, I keep myself busy with my business. It's a vehicle to meet people. Hopefully...One day, yeah, I know....