I am a control systems engineer for a local utility carry a few extra pounds and enjoy out door activities, scifi, oldies. I am not looking for a perminent relationship at this time but might consider an extended relationsip as time goes on and situation changes. I enjoy giving my partner oral sex but am not into anything kinky or involving pain. I respect my partner and enjoy giving pleasure. I have had only one partner and had a vasectomy in 1984.