I am a 36 YO chef and music lover ect.. Huge Grateful Dead/Phish fan and enjoy many other types of music. Opera is a big part of my music life and Puccini is my favorite composer in this genre. Hobbies?To many to name. People have said I am a bit of a eccentric human being...I am super close to my family and Life is grand :} I enjoy playing piano,guitar,fly fishing,camping,leather working,sewing and woodworking. I enjoy designing and building my own S+M gear ;] I help take care of a nature preserve next to my house and it is super cool:} I am part owner of the restaurant 'THE GALLERIA CAFE:} So that is my main focus now. Over all I try to enjoy life and all it has to offer:}. I am looking for new friends to have fun with nothing serious to start. Say hello:} Neil:}I have sex once a month.I have not had a one-night stand but I\'d love to right now.Some places I like to have sex are: in a bedroom, in the kitchen, in a park, in a car, in the office.I masturbate daily.