Most guys don't know that us women can get that tingly feeling in the good parts, unexpectedly and out of nowhere too. It's slightly more rare, but it happens. And it happens a lot to me. Usually, I'm out at a nightclub, shaking my thing, and getting the eye from all the guys who are watching me. And usually, it's easy enough to pick up one of them. But that's not always safest, and it's not always the way I want things done. I want something ongoing, but I need my freedom.